HUMILIATION IS NOT POWER — VDM CALLS IT WHAT IT IS

VDM has once again touched a truth many people choose to ignore — the idea that humiliating another man in public somehow makes someone powerful.

According to VDM, any man who deliberately makes another man feel small in front of a crowd or a woman has already failed as a man.

It does not matter how much money you have. It does not matter the title you carry.

The moment you use wealth, influence, or intimidation to strip another man of dignity, you expose weakness — not strength.

VDM made it clear that real men do not seek validation by tearing others down. That behaviour is rooted in insecurity — the mindset of someone who needs an audience to feel important.

He also highlighted something many people misunderstand: silence is not weakness.

Many men stay quiet in humiliating situations not because they cannot respond, but because they understand consequences, power dynamics, and the danger of reacting emotionally in front of a biased crowd.

Raising your hand to slap a man. Threatening him because you think money buys influence. Believing you can purchase loyalty, silence, or reports.

That is not dominance. That is fear disguised as confidence.

One of the strongest points VDM shared is this: people never forget how you make them feel.

Life has a way of revisiting behaviour. The same person you push down today may rise tomorrow in ways you never imagined.

VDM’s philosophy has remained consistent — treat people like humans. Make people feel respected, not disposable.

He has said repeatedly that he would rather uplift someone in public than humiliate them to impress others.

This perspective comes from lived experience — from understanding struggle, from watching life change quickly, and from knowing how fast positions can reverse.

Money does not make you superior. Position does not make you untouchable. Influence does not erase accountability.

If you humiliated someone, the right thing to do is apologise — not because you were caught, but because dignity matters.

Real strength is respect. Real power is humility. Real men don’t destroy others to feel important.

Peace and love.
Don’t play.